other microscopic organisms might be enjoying a little splashy-splashy as well. Grab your bed wedge and let's get cracking! And his bed is too low so he cant do the whole like, stand up and me kneel thing after trying those three we just sort of gave up because it wasnt working. Make use of your hands, your mouths, toys, edible body paint anything goes. This is true of all sets of partners, but experimentation is really the best way to go about figuring out what works for you and what doesn't.